Sobriety
refers to the state of being sober, with synonyms such as clearheaded, common
sense, practicality, self control, self-restraint and conservatism among
others.
I
have been working out for a while now and one morning in particular I was
frustrated and steaming with anger at something I can’t even recall. I went
through the usual techniques that help me calm down and set off for my jog.
However depending on the strength of anger and frustration, said emotions might
linger for a while and this was one of those times. I had been jogging for
about 3 minutes when a ridiculous idea went through my mind. How about I divert
my energies to the physical activity at hand? To my surprise, it did work and
that’s the furthest and shortest jog I’ve ever done and with all that
adrenaline, you have to admit that that there is a high of some sort. This got
me thinking, ‘Does that mean that there is such a thing as work out addicts?’
With
that line of thought, I went through the synonyms of sobriety and it had me
questioning something I had never considered before, is there such a thing as
sobriety?
As
human beings, we have emotions and by default that guarantees that there will
be times when we are not clearheaded and right there in that moment, one is not
sober. Common sense is relative so that one is a no brainer while practicality
is subjective depending on one’s views therefore it is disqualified in my books
because of the numerous variables involved. Self control and self constraint
rely on human beings acting rationally which is not something we are famous
for. No matter how open minded one is there is at least one thing said person
is NOT willing to change for whatever reason.
If
there is a percentage of people that is lucky enough or determined or both to
belong to none of these scenarios, there are the obvious scenarios that prevent
one from being sober. These include but are not limited to alcohol, drugs, sex
and pain.
Does
that mean that if I am vulnerable in whatever direction I turn that there is no
point in attempting at sobriety?